On Conversations That Only Happen in Transit

The city moved around us. We did not hurry.
The city moved around us. We did not hurry.

There are conversations that require a destination.

And others that require none.

The latter tend to occur in transit.

A taxi, for instance. A contained space, moving through a city that does not concern itself with your particular trajectory. There is no need to maintain continuity. No expectation of resolution.

Only duration.

She sits beside me. The city passes in fragments—light, shadow, brief recognitions that vanish before they can be named.

And then, without preamble, she says something real.

Not introduced. Not prepared.

Just… offered.

Perhaps it is the forward motion. The absence of eye contact when one looks out the window. The understanding that this conversation is bracketed by arrival—that it need not sustain itself beyond the ride.

I respond, more directly than I might otherwise.

There is something about transit that permits honesty without consequence. Not because the moment is insignificant, but because it is contained.

We are not building something here.

We are passing through it.

And yet, these are often the conversations I remember.

Not the carefully arranged ones. Not the structured exchanges over a table.

But the ones that occur while neither of us is fully anchored.

I step out of the car. The air feels different. The conversation dissolves into memory almost immediately.

But its shape remains.

Suspended.

Like something that was never meant to last—and therefore, was allowed to be entirely real.